I grew up with six brothers. That’s how I learned to dance – waiting for the bathroom.
Bob Hope
Asking permission to use the restroom in French
Key phrases for bathroom requests
Here are a few phrases you can use to politely ask permission to go to the bathroom:
Excusez-moi, est-ce que je peux aller aux toilettes, s’il vous plaît ?
Excuse me, may I go to the bathroom, please?
Est-ce que je peux prendre une pause pour aller aux toilettes ?
Can I take a break to go to the bathroom?
Est-ce que je peux m’absenter un instant pour aller aux toilettes ?
May I step away for a moment to use the bathroom?
Est-ce que je peux aller aux toilettes rapidement ?
Can I go to the bathroom quickly?
Excusez-moi, où se trouve la salle de bain, s’il vous plaît ?
Excuse me, where is the bathroom, please?
Où sont les toilettes ?
Where are the toilets?
Où est la salle de bain ?
Where is the bathroom?
Correct pronunciation and accent tips
Here’s some advice on French pronunciation and tips on how to speak naturally:
How to pronounce vowels?
Listen to native speakers
Listen to and imitate native speakers and reproduce the way they speak (intonations and sounds).
Distinguish between vowels
There are two types of vowels: nasal and oral. For example, on and an.
How to pronounce the consonants?
Les liaisons
Les liaisons are important in French. It’s easier for a native speaker to understand you if you make the lisaisons than if you don’t, even if you’ll still be understood. For example, les amis is pronounced les zami.
Consonants at the end of words
Some consonants at the end of words are not pronounced. For example, petit is pronounced peti.
How to speak naturally?
Speak French regularly
Regular practice is very important. I recommend that you speak with native French speakers as often as possible.
Active listening
Active listening will help you integrate different ways of pronouncing and correct your mistakes.
To remember
If you are a beginner, I suggest you to learn a clear and simple sentence before moving on to more complex sentences. You can use this one everytime:
S’il vous plaît, où sont les toilettes ? (Please, where are the toilet?)
Mastering French customary code of polite behavior for restroom usage
Cultural differences in restroom etiquette
Standards of toilet behavior are a manifestation of our culture. Here’s a look at how French norms compare with those of other cultures:
France
Privacy and discretion are paramount
Regular practice is very important. I recommend that you speak with native French speakers as often as possible.
Being clean
In theory, cleanliness is a must. Unfortunately, not everyone thinks of others. Maintaining cleanliness is a priority. Users are generally careful to leave the toilets clean for the next person.
Toilet paper
Toilet paper is used all the time. We throw it in the bowl.
In other cultures
In the United States
In the public toilets we are very discreet and fast.
In the Middle East
We use water. The toilets can be equipped with water sprays or bidets.
In Southeast Asia
Toilet paper is used all the time. We throw it in the bowl.
In Japan
The capital cleanliness in Japan. The toilets often have heated seats and water jets for washing.
Handling emergencies politely
Here are some tips on how to communicate politely while expressing urgent needs:
The language
The politeness formulas: introduce what you want to say by Excusez-moi, s’il vous plaît or Je vous prie de m’excuser. (‘Excuse me, please.’ or ‘I beg you to excuse me.’)
Try as much as possible to be clear in your communication. Do not use words with an emotional connotation but neutral terms.
Be discreet
In a public institution, discreetly ask a member of staff.
The use of non-verbal signals is sometimes easier than verbally formulating one’s needs.
Observe your environment
Choose the appropriate moment to report your emergency.
Be calm so as not to stress others.
Know how to express the urgency without embarrassing others
An example of what you can say: C’est urgent, pourriez-vous me dire où sont les toilettes, s’il vous plait? (It’s urgent, could you tell me where the toilet is, please?)
Don’t go into details. Stay focused on solving your problem.
Thank you
You can say: Merci beaucoup de votre compréhension et de votre aide. (Thank you very much for your understanding and your help.)
If your urgency has embarrassed someone, consider asking for a polite apology.
Exercise
What are the customary codes of polite behavior for the use of toilets in your country? Write it in the comments in French. I’ll correct the language if needed.
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I’ve been singing Shakira songs in front of my bathroom mirror into my hairbrush forever. It’s like a daily routine.
Taylor Swift
Learning French restroom vocabulary
Basic restroom vocabulary
What can you find in the bathroom?
Le lavabo (sink)
Les toilettes (toilet)
La baignoire (bathtub)
La douche (shower)
Le pommeau de douche (shower head)
Le rideau de la douche (shower curtain)
Le miroir (mirror)
L’armoire (cabinet)
Les étagères (shelves)
Le tapis de bain (bath mat)
Les serviettes (towels)
Le savon (soap)
Les brosses à dents (toothbrushes)
Le sèche-cheveux (hair dryer)
La poubelle (bin)
Le papier toilette (toilet paper)
What can you do?
Se laver les mains (washing hands)
Se brosser les dents (brushing teeth)
Prendre un bain (taking a bath)
Prendre un douche (taking a shower)
Se laver le visage (washing the face)
Utiliser le savon (using soap)
Nettoyer la salle de bain (cleaning the bathroom)
Nettoyer la baignoire (cleaning the bathtub)
Se raser (shaving)
What can you do related to the toilet?
Aller aux toilettes (going to the toilet)
Tirer la chasse d’eau (flushing the toilet)
Utiliser le papier toilette (using toilet paper)
Nettoyer la cuvette et la lunette des toilettes avec une éponge (clean the toilet bowl and the toilet seat with a sponge)
Personal care routines
Utiliser le sèche-cheveux (using the hair dryer)
Se regarder dans le miroir (looking at yourself in the mirror)
Se peigner (combing)
Se mettre de la crème sur le visage (putting cream on your face)
Se maquiller (making-up)
What other actions can you do?
Jeter quelque chose dans la poubelle (throwing something in the bin)
Mettre les serviettes sur les étagères (putting towels on the shelves)
Remplacer le rouleau de papier toilette (replacing the toilet paper roll)
Nettoyer le lavabo (cleaning the sink)
Mettre un nouveau tube de dentifrice sur le lavabo (putting a new tube of toothpaste on the sink)
Mettre un nouveau shampooing sur le rebord de la baignoire (putting a new shampoo on the rim of the bathtub)
Click on these videos to see the vocabulary with pictures.
Advanced vocabulary for specific situations
Personal hygiene
De l‘antiseptique (antiseptic)
Des produits dermatologiques (dermatological products)
Un exfoliant (exfoliant)
Un antifongique (antifungal)
Hair care
Un revitalisant (a conditioner)
Un sérum capillaire (a hair serum)
Un défrisant (a hair straightener)
De la kératine (keratin)
Skin care
Un matifiant (a mattifier)
Émulsion (emulsion)
Photo-protecteur (photo-protector for skin)
Accessories
Une brosse à dents électrique (an electric toothbrush)
Un système de filtration d’eau pour la douche (a water filtration system for the shower)
Des lingettes démaquillantes réutilisables (reusable make-up remover wipes)
Un miroir éclairé (an illuminated mirror)
Du fil dentaire (dental floss)
Exercise
Describe in French, in a few sentences, the actions you do in the bathroom in the morning. Write it in the comments. I’ll correct the language if needed.
Le pictogramme pour les toilettes (the pictogram for the toilet)
La femme (woman) et l’homme (man)
L’homme (man) et la femme (woman)
Les toilettes pour les personnes handicapées (toilets for disabled people)
–La pièce pour faire la toilette aux enfants (the room to wash the children) -Changer bébé / Table à langer
Le pictogramme pour la douche (the pictogram for the shower)
Interpreting hygiene and usage instructions
Here are behaviors to follow to keep good hygiene for all users:
Se laver les mains (washing hands)
Laisser les toilettes propres (leave the toilet clean)
Ne pas jeter de déchets dans les toilettes (do not throw garbage in the toilet)
Sortez par la sortie de secours si nécessaire (exit through the emergency exit if necessary)
Déposez les articles d’hygiène féminine dans la poubelle prévue à cet effet (Put the feminine hygiene items in the trash can provided for this purpose)
Go to the men’s room if you are a man, to the women’s room if you are a woman and to the disabled toilet if you are a disabled person.
Exercise
What do the pictograms look like in your country? Write it in French in the comments. I’ll correct if needed.
Où sont les toilettes s’il vous plaît ? (Where are the toilets, please?) Excuse-moi, où sont les toilettes ? (Excuse me, where are the toilets?) Où sont les WC ? (Where are the toilets?) Je cherche les toilettes, s’il vous plaît ? (I’m looking for the toilets, please?)
Is there a colloquial way to ask for the bathroom in French?
Où sont les chiottes ? (Where are the toilets?)
Can you translate ‘May I use the restroom?’ to French?
The translation in French is Puis-je utiliser les toilettes ?